Monday, December 2, 2013

Rights and wrongs








since I've got here, well, since we all got here on this journey, we've been all questioning our selves, are we spending too much money, partying too much , working too little, booze n smokes, if something is moral, right or wrong. But if I may say, what is right, and what is wrong? 
Since someone established those rights and wrongs, or let's better say "rules" (our parents, their parents and so on), the world has pretty much changed!
WE've been all questioning ourself so much, some living in fear that they are being judged too much, or what might people say. The truth is, we judge ourselves, cause we have those ground rules in our heads, such as get married, have kids, girls must not behave like this and that, who may have been useful back in the days, but now everything has changed so much. Girls and boys aint what they used to be. Kids are not what they used to be. I am looking around and seeing 14 years old guys smoking, it's not that in my days of elementary school that didn't exist, it's that there were just 2 of them and they were the outcasts. My little sister has a better phone than I, like seriously? :D
But the times has just changed, and so did we, and so did the rules. 
We are taking each others way too seriously, we spend too much time judging and distinguishing right from wrong, and when someone does that to us, we feel hurt and misjudged, but we don't say to ourselves- now u know how it feels!
We should all just chill, smoke one, and stop hating so much. Most of the times when we think someone is judging us or talking about us - it's not true. None cares. everyone has their own lives to worry about, and nobody spends so much time thinking about us, our wrongs and rights, and for those who do spend too much time judging others and living some other life instead of it's own - get a life, read a book, take a walk and chill. 

We just think too much, and live too little.  We should enjoy our days more, do more exciting things, and feel less guilty about it. 
We all will do something stupid we regret, we will sometimes come across like weirdoes or misunderstood creatures, we all will fall but we all will get up.
One thing I learned is that we are not that alone. Just talking the girls here, we all are so different, we have different lives but in the end we all, kind of, fear the same things, such as am I good enough, will my parents be proud, will I ever be able to return them as much as they gave me. We all do have similar fears and in the end we all have similar flaws too. 
So don't be too quick on the judgment trigger cause u might have a brother next to u, and u don't even know about it.
And remember, only u can decide what's good for u and what's not. 

And about my styling, shorts in winter? IT'S DAMN RIGHT!!! why not? haha
My dearest friend Viktor has this obsession with KTZ, the ultimate fashion brand that dresses stars such as Rihanna and Kanye West, and must say, they are rocking it. So thanks to Viktor, I know a bit more about them, and I really totally love them. They understand everything that is nowadays in.
So this shirt is their copy of the PYREX KTZ shirt, the original is way more expensive, and till my bday, I think I am gonna be satisfied with the copy of it! I paired it with this ROMWE cropped t-shirt connected with chains. And ofc, some shorts and high socks with my creepers shoes on my feet! 
I have a little bit of obsession with flannel shirts lately. U can pair them with everything, and it always looks good  no matter if u put them around your waist just as an accessory or just simply wearing it.  But not only flannel shirts, I think I am more attracted to the print lately, to make it more fun and interesting. And if not print? than clean as fuck with some killer shoes! :D Which I still have to get, cause ofc, with the limited airport baggage, I couldn't take my big boots n shoes, but ok, patience is a virtue!! haha!



Photos by Eva Mastnak! 

3 comments:

  1. Awesome Look
    and Stunning pics
    Just L-O-V-E-D
    <3
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  2. nice one, other than the fashion paragraph, i think u'r just right :)

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